April 20, 2020

Can Feminism solve our problems?


While Feminists have always painted themselves as a women’s movement they have in reality always represented a small segment of the population. They believe in and advocate a particular ideology that some women feel empowered by and other women feel oppressed by. It has always been a movement that represents some women and not all. […]

March 16, 2020

Umm Salama: Separation, Grief, and Faith


Umm Salama was one of the wives of our beloved prophet, peace to him. Before her blessed marriage to the prophet, she was married to Abdullah, an early companion, and martyr in the way of God. After facing persecution in Mecca and through God’s permission the Muslims of the era left their homes in Mecca […]

March 9, 2020

Why ‘religious freedom’ is a difficult cause to stand behind in America


Since the success of the gay marriage debate by the LBGT, religious communities have turned inwards to focus on fighting against the influence and influx of this movement and its members on their communities. This is, in itself a noble fight but it has a nefarious past and until that is honestly reckoned with it […]

March 2, 2020

Seeing God’s presence in the ‘little’ things


It is true. Nature brings us closer to God. We know, as human beings, that we did not create the sky, the dirt, the moon or the trees. It is difficult not to acknowledge that there is a “higher being,” “higher consciousness” or “mastermind” involved in the creation of nature —of those things that exist […]

February 24, 2020

Economic and emotional pressures in women’s ‘choice’ to work


One of the most popular posts on this blog is ‘But, Khadija worked’, which examined -in part, the fallacy that Khadija ‘working’ should diminish men’s financial responsibility to their wives. In the post, I used the term “wage-slave” to describe women who were forced to work outside the home. That term is harsh but valuable […]

December 9, 2019

The Adab problem amongst Muslim academics (?)


Of late, I’ve been reading a lot of Islamic works written by Muslim academics —bits and pieces to finalize an upcoming research paper and work on an upcoming lecture. What strikes me as off in all of these works is a confusing lack of Adab. Adab generally means good manners or a way of approaching […]

November 19, 2019

Men are the maintainers… women are the keepers of the unseen…


God declares in surah 4, verse 34, that men are providers and maintainers of women and women are obedient to men and the “keepers of the unseen”. While the end of the verse is often what attracts our attention as modern readers because it is so at odds with our cultural conception of marriage, the […]

October 29, 2019

So, you walk in to a bar…


The tongue, Mohamed Ghilan states in his podcast episode entitled Prohibitions of the tongue: Part 1 of 6, is like a bar. If a Muslim walks into a bar, they might be going to simply get a glass of water or soda. Or it could be that the company they work for decides to hold an […]

October 14, 2019

Khadijah Knew


Khadijah knew a prophet was coming. We are amazed by Khadijah’s surety in the prophet, peace to him, when he came back from the cave saying, “Cover me, cover me”. He was worried something had happened to him, but without fear, Khadijah states with certainty, “Never! By God, God will never disgrace you! You keep […]

September 30, 2019

Marital Rape


The conversation around consent has evolved over the past decade. 10 years ago, it wouldn’t be uncommon to hear a male character on a TV sitcom laugh about attempting to get a woman to sleep with them by giving them ample alcohol. It’d be equally as likely to see female characters laugh about “getting so […]

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